Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles.
Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do.
But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons.
It is my prayer that you will find that here.
Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life.
Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support.
Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon!
~ Jess
Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles.
Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do.
But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons.
It is my prayer that you will find that here.
Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life.
Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support.
Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon!
~ Jess
Episodes
Friday Dec 17, 2021
Friday Dec 17, 2021
Episode 57.5 (Friday Faith Follow-up) //
We’re talking about my favorite books, resources, and tools this week - so today in this follow-up bonus episode, I want to share some ways that this podcast, this community, and my ministry can help YOU! Find some quick encouragement and get plugged in for a great 2022 and beyond.
Get the FULL show notes with links to all of the resources mentioned at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/057
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
I am an affiliate for some of the resources mentioned, as discussed in the episode.
Tuesday Dec 14, 2021
Tuesday Dec 14, 2021
Episode 57 // As a family therapist, I often get asked about my recommendations for books, tools, or ideas to help women strengthen their family relationships. In today’s episode, I’m sharing my top 10 list of recommended resources for busy Christian moms.
Most of them are free, others are definitely low-cost… and ALL will help you love your people well! I’ve got books, online resources, my favorite busy mom tools, and more.
Pick your favorite, and grab it today, or add it to your Christmas wish list for your family!
Let’s dive in.
Get the FULL show notes with links to all of the resources mentioned at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/057
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
I am an affiliate for some of the resources mentioned, as discussed in the episode.
Friday Dec 10, 2021
(F3) Four things that helped me trust God during my infertility journey
Friday Dec 10, 2021
Friday Dec 10, 2021
Episode 56.5 (Friday Faith Follow-up) //
This week, we are talking about how to “wait well” during difficult, long seasons of waiting. In this bonus follow-up episode, I’m sharing some of my personal story waiting through infertility for God to bring a miracle, to give us children.
Here are 4 things I did to “wait well” during infertility.
Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/056
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible & Prayer Challenge at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/holy-habits
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Dec 07, 2021
Tuesday Dec 07, 2021
Episode 56 // We all have seasons of waiting - but sometimes it is far more intense, important, and emotionally difficult. So how do we wait well? That’s our conversation today.
My goal in today’s episode is that you will walk away feeling encouraged and strengthened in your season of waiting, with tangible action steps to help you wait well, and love your people well even during the difficult emotions that come with long seasons of waiting.
Let’s dive in.
Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/056
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible & Prayer Challenge at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/holy-habits
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Dec 03, 2021
Friday Dec 03, 2021
Episode 55.5 // Friday Faith Follow-up
Today I’m sharing the 5 daily routines that I am using with my triplet toddlers to help them know, love, and follow God. These routines will change over time, but life is pretty crazy with triplets … and toddlers of any amount! Yet, family discipleship and intentional parenting is still a goal and is definitely possible.
I hope these 5 routines are helpful, and I would love to hear what routines YOU use every day with your kids (of any age!) to be intentional in your parenting!
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Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/055
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the FREE 5 Tools Every Busy Mom Needs to Move Her Family From Autopilot to Intimacy at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/tools
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Nov 30, 2021
Tuesday Nov 30, 2021
Episode 55 // Do you want to raise children who love God, help others, and make an impact in this crazy world? I am confident that your answer is YES! This is what we all want as moms.
If we want this to happen, we know that we need to be intentional about how we parent our children. Family discipleship matters. Family habits, routines, values, and relationships matter.
So in today’s episode (which airs on #GivingTuesday!) we will cover 7 family discipleship strategies for how we can approach our parenting today in order to see the fruit of kindness, compassion, love, and generosity in our children’s lives. Let’s dive in.
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Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/055
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the FREE 5 Tools Every Busy Mom Needs to Move Her Family From Autopilot to Intimacy at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/tools
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Nov 26, 2021
Friday Nov 26, 2021
Episode 54.5 (Friday Faith Follow-up) // Hopefully, at your family gatherings you have a joyful, encouraging time together. But for many of us, when conflict escalates, we walk away with some pain or grief, and forgiveness is needed. Reconciliation is needed - especially with our family!
That’s why in today’s follow-up episode, we’re looking at 2 Corinthians 2:5-11 to find encouragement and action steps for how to forgive and reconcile with someone in our family who has grieved us.
Forgiveness is hard stuff. But it is worthwhile. Let’s dive in, friends.
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Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/054
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the free 10-point Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Nov 23, 2021
Tuesday Nov 23, 2021
Episode 54 // There is something about family holiday gatherings that brings out the conflict. As you approach the holidays, or any other big family gathering, are you starting to feel stressed or worried about what’s going to come out?
As a family counselor, I have heard many stories about the hurt and pain that can occur at family gatherings. Long-term damage can occur. Every family has certain hot-button topics or unresolved issues.
That’s why today, as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, I’m outlining 7 practical tips for how to avoid family drama (or resolve conflict as it starts) to help you enjoy the holidays, have a fun family gathering, and find peace as you plan for these special events.
Let’s dive in!
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Get the FULL show notes with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/054
Join us inside the private Facebook Group! www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Grab the free 10-point Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Episode 53.5 (Friday Faith Follow-up) // Do you have questions about the gospel, evangelism, spiritual growth, or what it really means to follow Jesus? You are not alone! In today’s Friday Faith Follow-up episode, we are looking at 4 of the FAQs that I hear most often at church and in the counseling room.
Let’s dive in.
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/053
Resources from today’s episode:
FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible & Prayer Challenge
Join our private Facebook Group
Connect with me on Instagram @loveyourpeoplewell or by email jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, see some FAQ at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/Counseling
Tuesday Nov 16, 2021
Tuesday Nov 16, 2021
Episode 53 // The truth of the gospel changes our lives. But how? Do you really understand it? Are you experiencing the joy and peace that Jesus promises?
Today, we’re looking at the book of Colossians to better understand… what is the gospel? How is it changing me? (Is it changing me?) What does it mean for my family life?
If you aren’t a Christian yet… you’ll be challenged and changed. If you already follow Christ… you’ll be so encouraged. Either way, let’s dive in!
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Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/053
Resources from today’s episode:
FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible & Prayer Challenge
Join our private Facebook Group
Connect with me on Instagram @loveyourpeoplewell or by email jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, see some FAQ at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/Counseling








