Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships

Fighting fair, finding forgiveness, and handling conflict in your Christian marriage.

Episode 103 // Ah, conflict. It is no fun! And it can destroy our peaceful home, happy family life, and the witness of our Christian marriage.
 
As a marriage and family therapist, I have spent hundreds of hours helping couples work through conflict in all its various ways. So today, I’m outlining the 3 phases of conflict and looking at specific Bible passages that help us understand ways to handle those phases well. Ways to fight fair, find resolution, and get back to happiness in our marriage.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

(F3) Managing your own emotions as you help your kids deal with their struggles

Episode 102.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
When your child is struggling, you’re struggling too. Emotions are big, raw, and sometimes overwhelming. So today, let me encourage you in how to manage YOUR emotions as you help your child through their own struggles and hardships.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/102 
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Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

How to help your child if they are struggling with anxiety, worry, or fear

Episode 102 // There is nothing worse as a mom than watching our kids struggle. And in today’s world, SO MANY of our kiddos are struggling with anxiety! Fear, worry, and anxiety are painful and difficult… but you CAN help your child manage these hard emotions. 
 
Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, anxiety and fear can be a struggle. My goal in today’s episode is to equip you not only to recognize what’s going on, but fill up your toolbelt with some practical ways to help them during the struggle.
 
You can do it, mama. God can give peace beyond our understanding, and He will help you in exactly the right ways to help the precious child He’s given you.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/102 
Stand firm in the Lord: Grab the “Finding Your Identity in Christ” devotional workbook at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals 
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

(F3) What the Bible tells us about raising kids, managing family life, and living life well as a Christian mom… A devotional thought from Ephesians

Episode 101.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
Family dynamics can be overwhelming and complicated… but they don’t have to be. Join me today as we look at Ephesians 5+6 and apply God’s Word to our Christian family life.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/101 
Grab the free 100 Ways to Love Your People Well at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/ways
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

Managing the family dynamics of multiple children: These 8 strategies will help you connect with each child as an individual

Episode 101 // When you have more than one child, the family dynamics just get more and more hectic. Even in a Christian family, relationship-building takes work and intentionality! How do you truly connect with each child as a unique individual?
 
Today, we’re looking at 8 realist strategies to help you build those relationships one child at a time, while also managing the dynamics of a large family.
 
Ready? Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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WANT MORE?
 
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/101 
Grab the free 100 Ways to Love Your People Well at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/ways
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

(F3) Biblical encouragement for how your Christian family can respond to hard seasons of life

Episode 100.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
Life is full of ups and downs. How we respond to those ups and downs shapes not only us but also our relationships. As you walk with your family through hardships and celebrations, turning to God and his Word will lead and comfort you. 
 
In this short episode, we’ll look at a simple devotional through 3 Bible passages that offer encouragement, guidance, and truth for our difficult times of family life.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/100 
Grab the NEW FREEBIE: 100 Ways to Love Your People Well www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/100ways 
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 
 

Building family relationships as you walk through the many seasons of life: from celebration to sadness and everything in between

Episode 100 // We all want happiness in life. We want peace, security, purpose, and fun. But we also promise in our wedding vows “in sickness and in health” for a reason. 
 
Because life will throw curveballs at us. 
 
Life will have its hard seasons. And the reality is, these are often seasons when we can most strengthen our family relationships! Through the good and the bad, the fun and the hard, we want to be building up our relationships all the time. So today, let’s look at 5 ways we can do this well.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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WANT MORE?
 
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/100 
Grab the NEW FREEBIE: 100 Ways to Love Your People Well www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/100ways 
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

(F3) Are the 5 love languages biblical? How does God want us to show love to our people?

Episode 99.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
The world tells us a lot about love… but what does God say? What are the biblical principles for loving our family, showing them how we care about them, and building these relationships?
 
Let’s dive into God’s Word to find his wisdom and practical ideas for showing our people we love them.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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WANT MORE?
 
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/099 
Grab the free 5 Tools Every Busy Mom Needs to Move Her Family From Autopilot to Intimacy 5-day email course: www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/tools 
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

Let’s figure out the best ways to love YOUR people well: the 5 love languages, creativity, and a reality check for the busy Christian mom

Episode 99 // There are so many ways to show your people that you love them, yet we sometimes feel like we are spinning our wheels in our relationships! We need creative ideas for how to show our family that we love them, and realistic ways to make that happen.
 
In today’s episode, we’ll explore Dr. Gary Chapman’s five love languages ideas, dive into some practical examples for family life, and brainstorm creative ways to love your people well in real life.
 
Ready? Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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WANT MORE?
 
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/099 
Grab the free 5 Tools Every Busy Mom Needs to Move Her Family From Autopilot to Intimacy 5-day email course: www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/tools 
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell 
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources 
 
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople 
 
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling. 

ENTER THE 100th EPISODE GIVEAWAY!!! 🥳 Details Inside.

Friends, we are THISCLOSE to episode 100! How incredible. And we are going to celebrate! In this quick episode you can get all the details of the 100th Episode Giveaway.
Get your entry in between Oct. 3-Oct. 10 to win an Amazon gift card + books + coffee + free resources... great stuff!
And THANK YOU for listening and sharing over these 100 episodes!
You can get ALL the info on the ministry over at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jessica
 
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Okay, how to enter? Let's just go through it here nice and simple for you:
1. Leave a written review of the show on Apple Podcasts (or your favorite podcast app).
2. Take a screenshot of your review before you hit "share"
3. Share that screenshot with me! You can email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com or post it on your social and tag me @loveyourpeoplewell 
4. That's all, folks! Nice and easy.