Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles.
Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do.
But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons.
It is my prayer that you will find that here.
Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life.
Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support.
Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon!
~ Jess
Episodes
Tuesday Jun 06, 2023
Tuesday Jun 06, 2023
Episode 121 // How often are you giving your husband and your children undivided, positive attention?
The days are so busy and our minds can get so distracted, it is easy to miss key opportunities to show our people that we love them. To show them that we are listening and that we care. But this is one thing that MUST be present in your home if you are going to enjoy Christian family life and build up great relationships!
So today, we’ll take a look at 5 common things in our normal everyday lives that are stealing your attention away from your family. Then, we’ll tackle 5 action steps you can take to get your attention back, and give it to the people who matter the most.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
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✔️ Emotions
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And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Friday Jun 02, 2023
10 Ways To Tear Down Your Christian Family Life Using Only Your Words
Friday Jun 02, 2023
Friday Jun 02, 2023
Episode 120.5 // Friday Faith Followup
You probably know that your words matter. They have a huge impact on your family. And hopefully, there are a lot of very positive, encouraging, uplifting words being spoke open in your home!
But today, let’s take a different angle.
The reality is, we all make mistakes. We all get overwhelmed, angry, or frustrated. But if we let bad habits of communication linger in our homes, there will be a big impact.
So join me today to look at the opposite side of the coin. Here are 10 things NOT TO DO if you want to have a happy home life! But, if you’re curious what the foolish woman of Proverbs 14:1 might say in her home… well, probably everything on this list.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Tuesday May 30, 2023
The Key To A Happy Christian Home: Speaking Encouraging Words For Your Family
Tuesday May 30, 2023
Tuesday May 30, 2023
Episode 120 // Want a happy home life? Well, one of the first things to take a look at is your WORDS. How are you using your words with your husband, your kids, even yourself inside your own head?
In today’s episode, we’ll take a look at why your words matter so much, how they impact the people you love the most, and 6 Scriptures that show us how to best use our words inside our homes.
Friend, nothing will tear down your home faster than harsh words, angry words, thoughtless words… and even the silent lack of encouraging, compassionate, kind words.
So let’s look together at how to boost our family’s happiness by using our words well.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Friday May 26, 2023
Friday May 26, 2023
Episode 119.5 // Friday Faith Followup
Ever feel stuck on what to do with your family? How to sneak in a little quality time, make everyone smile, and have some fun on a rainy day?
There are a million ideas for how to have fun together, but it’s still really easy to feel stuck. Every family tends to find their routine, figure out what works, and then just keep coming back to the same favorites again and again.
Well, sometimes, we need to branch out! Try new things. Increase the quality time that we’re enjoying with our people.
That’s why today on the podcast, I’m sharing 25 simple ideas for family fun activities you can do at home. These ideas are free, realistic, and they work for toddlers or teens, without needing to always hop in the car or turn on technology to have fun together.
Want a few new ideas? Let’s dive in!
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
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You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Tuesday May 23, 2023
Tuesday May 23, 2023
Episode 119 // Do you ever find it hard to get quality family time? To actually have FUN together in the middle of your busy lives?
Family life can mean a lot of things to us, but one of the important parts (which is so easily overlooked) is that we want to have fun together. You want to enjoy your people! Conversations, activities, and time together should be fun and meaningful.
But when life is busy or we start to feel discouraged, having fun together is usually one of the first things to slip off the radar.
Well, not after today, my friend! Today, we’re looking at 5 reasons why having fun together matters for your quality family time, plus 5 strategies for how to actually make it happen when life gets busy and overwhelming.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Friday May 19, 2023
Friday May 19, 2023
Episode 118.5 // Friday Faith Followup
One of the hardest things about faith is understanding (and then living out!) Christian forgiveness. It takes so much humility, courage, and godly strength to forgive others!
Apologizing to your husband and your kids is not easy work. It requires you to set aside your pride, admit when you’re wrong, and seek restoration.
None of us can apologize or forgive well if we are not growing in humility. And when our feelings are hurt or we are fuming about something that happened, it takes wisdom to step back and work toward resolution.
These are important topics, and we all need some encouragement in how we handle apologies and forgiveness in our homes. So join me today for a look at how humility, wisdom, and courage play a role in this important aspect of Christian family life.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies - Including the Conflict Resolution Checklist!
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions - Including a 40-day devotional on emotional control!
✔️ Communication - Including my 40-day devotional on marriage communication!
🔗 Don’t forget to share the link to today’s episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
💯 While you’re at it, subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review, and join us for more inside the Faith Fiver Club on Patreon! www.patreon.com/loveyourpeoplewell
👉 Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Tuesday May 16, 2023
Tuesday May 16, 2023
Episode 118 // Do you find it easy to apologize to your kids? What about your husband? And let’s talk about forgiveness… ever have trouble forgiving someone who has hurt you?
Apologies and forgiveness are not easy. But they are a must in a Christian home! Family relationships require us to apologize, forgive, and make things right.
Christian forgiveness is a big topic. Today, we’re looking specifically at the Christian family - mom, dad, kids - and how you can step forward and strengthen your skill and willingness to apologize, forgive, and help restore healthy relationships.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies - Including the Conflict Resolution Checklist!
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions - Including a 40-day devotional on emotional control!
✔️ Communication - Including my 40-day devotional on marriage communication!
🔗 Don’t forget to share the link to today’s episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
💯 While you’re at it, subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review, and join us for more inside the Faith Fiver Club on Patreon! www.patreon.com/loveyourpeoplewell
👉 Read this episode on the blog here!
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Friday May 12, 2023
Friday May 12, 2023
Episode 117.5 // Friday Faith Follow-up
We struggle with our thoughts, emotions, attitudes, and interactions. They aren’t always as positive and godly as we want.
So to get a little perspective, let’s flip open our Bibles and take a look at 3 examples from the life of Jesus. Examples of times when he faced really difficult, painful, emotional situations… and dealt with it in a positive and godly way.
Of course, we’ll never handle things perfectly. Only Jesus was tempted and never sinned! We are tempted and try to sin less and less. As we try to become more and more Christ-like, looking at his example helps us get ideas for how to handle the realities of our lives in more God-honoring ways.
Ready for some encouragement? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
👉 And I hope you’ll join me in our new Faith Fiver Club as part of our Patreon community, to support the show and get some fun extra perks! 👈
Read this episode on the blog here!
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Tuesday May 09, 2023
Tuesday May 09, 2023
Episode 117 // Can you enjoy family life when your attitude is crummy?
Nope. Your attitude has everything to do with how your home feels, how you engage with your family, and how you handle frustrating moments of your day.
As Christian moms, we need to figure out how to hold onto a positive attitude even when things aren’t going the way we want. And we don’t want a rose-colored-glasses positive attitude, with a fake smile and bitterness in our hearts. No! We need a genuine, biblical, healthy attitude as we go about the good and hard moments of Christian family life.
So today, we’re taking a look at 6 real-life tips to help you maintain a biblical perspective, a healthy mindset, and a positive attitude.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies
✔️ Devotionals
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
👉 And I hope you’ll join me in our new Faith Fiver Club as part of our Patreon community, to support the show and get some fun extra perks! 👈
Read this episode on the blog here!
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Friday May 05, 2023
Friday May 05, 2023
Episode 116.5 // Friday Faith Followup
One of your best daily habits as a Christian mom is building a habit of prayer.
Prayer will take you into the Lord’s presence, and invite him to take charge - our Lord who is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-good, and always faithful.
You see, it’s basically impossible to hold onto a positive attitude during hard and frustrating moments of your day… UNLESS you had a right perspective on God.
Who is He? What is his character like? How does He act toward us, and what’s the impact on our daily lives?
Well, friend, join me for a devotional today through Moses’ prayer in Psalm 90. As we build a right perspective on God, we’ll find it much easier to hold onto a Christian mindset and positive attitude in our day-to-day family life.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Want more?
You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
✔️ Freebies - including the new journaling prompts!
✔️ Devotionals - including the new Building A Home of Godliness and Joy!
✔️ Faith
✔️ Marriage
✔️ Parenting
✔️ Emotions
✔️ Communication
👉 And I hope you’ll join me as a Faith Five-r in our NEW Patreon community, to support the show and get some fun extra perks! 👈
Read this episode on the blog here!
And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.
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... and don't forget:
I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨








