Love Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building
Welcome to the podcast that helps you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships! As a marriage and family therapist, pastor’s wife, and mom of 4 little ones, I know the ups and downs of Christian family life can get overwhelming. We all get discouraged sometimes. And the busy world can distract us from what truly matters. That’s why every week here on the podcast, you’ll find biblical encouragement and practical tips to help you enjoy family life more. Together, we’ll deepen our marriages, strengthen our parenting, and find greater peace in the love of Christ. P.S. - Grab your freebies, devotionals, and more at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess
Episodes
Friday Nov 18, 2022
(F3) What to do when your own parents are the difficult in-laws
Friday Nov 18, 2022
Friday Nov 18, 2022
Episode 105.5 // Friday Faith Followup
Family life can be rough when we have tension with our in-laws. But what if those difficult in-laws are your own parents? How can you best navigate those muddy waters and maintain a great relationship with ALL of your people?
Let’s consider today, my friend. Dive right in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/105
Grab the free Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
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Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Nov 15, 2022
Tuesday Nov 15, 2022
Episode 105 // Relationships with the in-laws can be tricky. There is often a lot of baggage and emotion in these parts of the Christian family experience, and it can be really difficult to navigate these relationships well!
Whether you love your in-laws or tolerate them, you have certainly had moments when you disagreed with them. When you just weren’t quite on the same page. And this often doesn’t just stay in that in-law relationship, but goes on to create tension in your marriage.
Today, we’re looking at some practical tips for handling these in-law dynamics in a biblical way that also strengthens your marriage and improves family life.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/105
Grab the free Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Nov 11, 2022
(F3) Caring for yourself as a busy Christian mom living in a broken world
Friday Nov 11, 2022
Friday Nov 11, 2022
Episode 104.5 // Friday Faith Followup
It can sometimes be a lot easier to pour our love, energy, and effort into our kids rather than taking time to care for ourselves. Parenting is work! It calls us to step up and put our children’s needs above our own.
But parenting is hard. Life can be discouraging. And as we seek to be biblically grounded parents, teaching our children how to follow Jesus (along with everything else!) we can struggle with the weight of the brokenness in the world.
We cannot love our children well without making the effort to take care of ourselves first. Let’s consider together why that matters, how we can do it, and find encouragement in the One we are serving along the way.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/104
Grab the Advent Story Cards to engage your kids in the Christmas story
Grab the free 51 Self Care Ideas List
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
How to biblically parent your children in a broken world
Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
Episode 104 // We all know that we live in a broken world. And while we want to protect our children from all of the sin, pain, and hardship, the simple reality is that… we can’t.
Good parenting is hard, and it takes hard, intentional work. And to be a biblical parent, raising our kids to know Jesus, we need to prepare them not only for the joy of following Christ but also prepare them for the hard realities of this life.
How do we guide our children through the brokenness of the world? How do we deal with it ourselves?
That’s what we’re tackling today, my friend, so that you can lead your Christian family through the good and the bad of everyday life.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/104
Grab the Advent Story Cards to engage your kids in the Christmas story
Grab the free 5 Tools Every Busy Mom Needs to Move Her Family From Autopilot to Intimacy 5-day email course
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Nov 04, 2022
Friday Nov 04, 2022
Episode 103.5 // Friday Faith Followup
1 Corinthians 13 is a classic passage on love. But what does it teach us about handling conflict in our marriage? How do we really live out the love that is described here?
Join me for a devotional look at this famous passage, as we seek to strengthen our Christian marriages through the wisdom and help of the Holy Spirit.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/103
Grab the free Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Find our marriage resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/marriage
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Episode 103 // Ah, conflict. It is no fun! And it can destroy our peaceful home, happy family life, and the witness of our Christian marriage.
As a marriage and family therapist, I have spent hundreds of hours helping couples work through conflict in all its various ways. So today, I’m outlining the 3 phases of conflict and looking at specific Bible passages that help us understand ways to handle those phases well. Ways to fight fair, find resolution, and get back to happiness in our marriage.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/103
Grab the free Conflict Resolution Checklist at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/conflict
Find our marriage resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/marriage
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Oct 28, 2022
Friday Oct 28, 2022
Episode 102.5 // Friday Faith Followup
When your child is struggling, you’re struggling too. Emotions are big, raw, and sometimes overwhelming. So today, let me encourage you in how to manage YOUR emotions as you help your child through their own struggles and hardships.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/102
Stand firm in the Lord: Grab the “Finding Your Identity in Christ” devotional workbook at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
How to help your child if they are struggling with anxiety, worry, or fear
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
Episode 102 // There is nothing worse as a mom than watching our kids struggle. And in today’s world, SO MANY of our kiddos are struggling with anxiety! Fear, worry, and anxiety are painful and difficult… but you CAN help your child manage these hard emotions.
Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, anxiety and fear can be a struggle. My goal in today’s episode is to equip you not only to recognize what’s going on, but fill up your toolbelt with some practical ways to help them during the struggle.
You can do it, mama. God can give peace beyond our understanding, and He will help you in exactly the right ways to help the precious child He’s given you.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/102
Stand firm in the Lord: Grab the “Finding Your Identity in Christ” devotional workbook at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Friday Oct 21, 2022
Friday Oct 21, 2022
Episode 101.5 // Friday Faith Followup
Family dynamics can be overwhelming and complicated… but they don’t have to be. Join me today as we look at Ephesians 5+6 and apply God’s Word to our Christian family life.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/101
Grab the free 100 Ways to Love Your People Well at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/ways
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Episode 101 // When you have more than one child, the family dynamics just get more and more hectic. Even in a Christian family, relationship-building takes work and intentionality! How do you truly connect with each child as a unique individual?
Today, we’re looking at 8 realist strategies to help you build those relationships one child at a time, while also managing the dynamics of a large family.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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WANT MORE?
Get the full show notes at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/101
Grab the free 100 Ways to Love Your People Well at www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/ways
Join our free online community at www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell
Find ALL of our resources for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources
Love the show? I’d love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople
Disclaimers:
I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you’re thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.