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(F3) How Christmas connects to our daily experience as Christian moms

Episode 109.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
This most magical time of year can be fun and meaningful, but sometimes it makes the rest of our “regular” lives feel unimportant. Mundane. Routine. 
 
The thing is… that’s not true. And the story of Christmas proves it.
 
Join me for a short devotional today, thinking through the incredible nature of the Christmas story and its connection to our everyday regular lives. It all matters, my friend.
 
Merry Christmas. :-) Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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Tips to prevent your family holidays from turning into a disaster… and ideas for what to do if things fall apart anyway

Episode 109 // Anytime there is a special event going on, there is extra space for things to fall apart. Emotions are higher, schedules are disrupted, memories are being made… and sometimes that means hurt feelings, conflict, and disappointment. 
 
Christmas does not always create the memories that we want. 
 
So today, we’re looking at 4 practical tips to AVOID disaster in your family holiday, plus 4 tips for how to RESPOND in the aftermath of disaster if it does happen. If things fall apart and feelings get hurt, there is hope. 
 
Let’s dive in.
 
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(F3) What does it really mean that my life is now hidden with Christ in God?

Episode 108.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
My friend, emotions are tough. Raising little ones is tough. Living in this broken world is tough! And we talked this week already about how God’s Word, his Holy Spirit, and his wisdom can love our people well while managing hard emotions.
 
We looked briefly at Colossians 3, but today I want to dive deeper. The verses we talked about can be a bit mysterious! Even if it’s clear enough what it means to set your heart and mind on the things above, what does it really mean that our lives are “hidden with Christ in God”? 
 
And what the heck does that mean for our emotional regulation, our anger management, or how we interact with our family?
 
Great questions. Let’s dive a little deeper into these verses together today.
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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Don’t let mom anger, mom guilt, or mom busyness steal your Christmas... Try this 1 tip instead

Episode 108 // Christmas is full of joy and family memories… and stress! Sometimes, our schedules get so full and our expectations get so high that our emotions can take over. Anger. Guilt. Frustration. 
 
Not this year, mama. Today we’re talking about why the holidays can trigger stress and hard emotions, what to do about it, and 1 biblical action step to help us ENJOY the Christmas season with our families.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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I am an affiliate for some of the products that I recommend. If you make a purchase through my link, I may earn a small commission. This is never at any additional cost to you, and I only recommend resources that I personally use or love!

(F3) What God thinks about your family’s Christmas wish lists

Episode 107.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
Do you ever look around your home during the Christmas holidays and wonder what God really wants you to prioritize during this special time of year? Or maybe you glance down at your to-do list, review the family calendar, and find yourself wondering if this is really what the holidays are all about. 
 
God does care about the holiday season, and He wants you to care about it in the right ways too. Let’s take a few minutes together to look at what that means for your Christian family this year.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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Loving your children well at Christmas is not about the gifts

Episode 107 // I know what you want for Christmas, mama. You want the same thing that I want - the same thing we ALL want. You want a peaceful, memory-making, joy-filled holiday with your family!
 
That’s it. Is it really so much to ask? To have a peaceful home during the holidays? A meaningful time with your kids? It’s definitely do-able… but not if we follow the cultural program for busyness, gifts on top of gifts on top of gifts, and stressing about finding the best sale. 
 
Today, we’re chasing after a meaningful Christmas. A peaceful home for the holidays. And we’re taking a look together at the only two things that you need to give your kids this year for Christmas. 
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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(F3) Questions to ask your kids during the Advent and Christmas season

Episode 106.5 // Friday Faith Followup
 
Hopefully, you are getting some extra family time during the Christmas holiday season! The kids are out of school, family travel is happening, and there are so many once-a-year events that allow us to make great memories together. 
 
As you’re enjoying that extra family time, make sure that you’re not only using it to have fun, but also to disciple your children. The Christmas season is the perfect time for some deeper conversations and teaching about Jesus. It is celebrating his birthday, after all!
 
In this quick episode, I’ll share 6 questions that can help your family discipleship during the holidays. Let’s dive in!
 
hugs & blessings,
Jess
 
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10 simple ways to keep Jesus, family time, and gratitude at the center of your holiday season

Episode 106 // The holidays are great… but they are often so busy! And it’s way too easy to get distracted from the important things that you want your family time to focus on for Christmas.
 
Maybe you’re distracted by the presents, maybe it’s all the extra parties and gatherings, or maybe it’s simply a busier to-do list. Whatever it is, let me encourage you today to set it aside. Refocus. Be realistic, and make time for what is actually most important for you as a Christian mom. 
 
If you’re anything like me, those most important things include Jesus, family time, and gratitude. So today, I’m offering 10 simple tips for how to keep these things at the center of your family’s holiday season. Don’t spend a lot of money, don’t spend a lot of time, but DO be intentional with the time and money that God’s given you.
 
Let’s dive in.
 
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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[Bonus FFF] Do you live as if you’re truly thankful for Jesus? Let’s look at Luke 7.

The holiday season has a lot of focus on gratitude... but a lot of focus as well on wish lists, good sales, and all the stuff.
Is there a gap there?
Maybe culturally, sure. But what about in your own heart?
I know there's a gap in my heart. I've been challenged this week by a passage in Luke 7, as I consider my own heart of gratitude and how I live out the love that I've received. 
Join me, friend, for a look at this passage and a biblical encouragement (and challenge!) that every Christian mom needs.
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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[Bonus] A practical encouragement for gratitude within the busyness of the holidays

Happy Thanksgiving!
This short bonus episode is an encouragement, my friend. The holidays are upon us, and it can be easy to get lost in the travel, activities, and to-do list.
So pause with me for a moment to consider the small things in life that fuel our relationships - and join me for a practical step into gratitude!
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings, 
Jess
 
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