Love Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building
Welcome to the podcast that helps you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships! As a marriage and family therapist, pastor’s wife, and mom of 4 little ones, I know the ups and downs of Christian family life can get overwhelming. We all get discouraged sometimes. And the busy world can distract us from what truly matters. That’s why every week here on the podcast, you’ll find biblical encouragement and practical tips to help you enjoy family life more. Together, we’ll deepen our marriages, strengthen our parenting, and find greater peace in the love of Christ. P.S. - Grab your freebies, devotionals, and more at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess
Episodes
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Grab my 40-day devotional on marriage communication: Communicating To Connect
Episode 252 // Did you know that your relationship can grow deeper, closer, and better if you figure out how to handle conflict well?
I’ve been a marriage and family therapist for over 10 years. And in today’s episode, I want to share my process for healthy, happy, and holy conflict resolution.
You can just grab the FREEBIE of my 10-point cheat sheet right here. But it’s definitely helpful to talk it through! So pop in your earbuds and let’s dive in for some practical tips and encouragement for your marriage today.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab my FREE Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet!
DEVOTIONAL: Grab my 40-day devotional on marriage communication: Communicating To Connect
LISTEN NEXT: Solving Your 3 Biggest Marriage Communication Problems (Episode 236)
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NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
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DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday May 28, 2025
251 // How A Christian Mom Serves Her Family Well… With A Warning
Wednesday May 28, 2025
Wednesday May 28, 2025
Grab the devotional workbook today: Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy.
Episode 251 // Can you enjoy a healthy, happy, and holy family life without serving one another out of love?
The idea of serving others is counter-cultural. We think it won’t feel good, it will feel hard, we might get taken advantage of… Yet, this is how Jesus calls on Christians to show their love for each other!
And no one serves others more than a mom. It’s what we’re famous for! It’s important, even though it is sometimes taken for granted. It is meaningful, even though we sometimes may grumble about it.
So today on the podcast, let’s find encouragement together by considering 5 things that a servant does. How can we do those things in our home, with a godly attitude, for the good of our families and the glory of God?
Plus, one important warning for us all… to make sure we are healthy right alongside our families.
Ready? Let’s dive in, friend.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab my free e-book and build your family bond! Building Your Mom Toolbox: Get Your Family Out Of The Rut And Reconnect
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the devotional workbook today: Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy.
LISTEN NEXT: Gospel Hope + Practical Ideas For The Discouragement, Hopelessness, And Hard Emotions Of Christian Family Life (Episode 142)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Grab your FREE Holy Habits 45-day Bible And Prayer Challenge here!
Episode 250 // It’s a cliche in Christian circles… “I should read the Bible more.” Or maybe, “I wish I read the Bible more.” Sometimes we beat ourselves up about it: “Gosh, why can’t I seem to regularly read my Bible?!”
It’s a thing many of us wish to be more consistent with. So why aren’t we? Does it really matter anyway? How could we get things moving in a direction we’re happy with?
Let’s go there.
Today, those are exactly the questions we’re covering. Make sure to stick around to the end for some really practical tips that will help address the biggest struggles we all have with reading our Bible regularly.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab your FREE Holy Habits 45-day Bible And Prayer Challenge here!
DEVOTIONAL: Dive deeper with the Finding Your Identity In Christ devotional workbook.
LISTEN NEXT: Making Time For A Daily Devotional Time (Even As A Busy Christian Mom) (Episode 184)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday May 14, 2025
249 // 3 Ways Satan Is Seeking To Destroy Your Family And Your Faith
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Deepen your Christian walk with the Finding Your Identity In Christ devotional workbook!
Episode 249 // It’s easy to get caught up in the flow of everyday life. But do you realize that there is an Enemy at war against you? At war against your family?
As Christians, we often think about the power of Jesus Christ in our lives and we pray for the Holy Spirit’s help as we struggle, grow, and journey through life. And the Bible is clear that these things are true and good.
But the Bible is also clear that we must be careful, alert, sober-minded, and intentional in how we live - because “your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8)
If you find yourself struggling against things like distraction, family conflict, big emotions, or other common worldy issues today - there is something bigger going on, and there is something that the Lord wants you to do about it!
Join me today, friends, for biblical encouragement along with some practical tips to keep the Lord first in our lives and to care for our families well.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab your FREE 45-day Bible and Prayer Guide today.
DEVOTIONAL: Deepen your Christian walk with the Finding Your Identity In Christ devotional workbook!
LISTEN NEXT: How Romans 12 Helps Me Be A Better Christian Mom (Episode 181)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday May 07, 2025
248 // Help! How Can I Help My Struggling Child? (10 Tips To Help Them)
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional on finding biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood.
Episode 248 // There’s nothing more painful than watching your kids struggle. But when they are struggling, there are ways that you can help!
Last week, we looked at caring for our hearts when our kids struggle. Today, let’s dive into some practical tips for how to HELP them when they are struggling.
I’ve been a family counselor for over 10 years, and I’ve thought through these tips based on what will help ALL kids - teens and toddlers and beyond. Every person is different, every relationship is different - but there are some tried and true strategies that help all of us.
Join me, friend, and let’s help each other, encourage each other, take a deep breath, and wade into the dark waters that our kids are sometimes swimming in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Building Your Mom Toolbox: Get Out Of The Ruth And Help Your Family Reconnect free ebook!
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional on finding biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood.
LISTEN NEXT: 13 Tips For An Exhausted Christian Mom (Episode 208)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
Join us in the Patreon community to support this ministry AND enjoy my 2025 Daily(ish) Devotionals in the private podcast + email every day! Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
247 // Help! My Kids Are Struggling And I Feel Helpless. (10 Tips To Help You)
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional on finding biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood.
Episode 247 // When you are hurting because your kids are hurting… what can you do?
We usually want to jump to action steps to help them. What should I say? What can I do?
Those things are important… and we’ll tackle that next week :-) But we can’t just jump over the pain that WE experience when our kids are struggling. And that’s what we’re looking at today.
When our kids hurt, we hurt. When they are sad, we are sad. When they are anxious, we are stressed. It’s hard when they’re toddlers, harder when they’re teens, and might feel impossible once they’re grown and moved out.
But it’s not impossible to help, and it’s not impossible to manage our own big emotions about it all.
Join me today for 10 ways you can care for your own heart as you walk with your children through the dark waters they sometimes swim in.
These aren’t tips that will make it all go away. It won’t mean that you stop caring and helping. But hopefully, it can make a difference in allowing the Lord to comfort you and shepherd you through a hard season of motherhood.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Building Your Mom Toolbox: Get Out Of The Ruth And Help Your Family Reconnect free ebook!
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional on finding biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood.
LISTEN NEXT: 7 Biblical Prayers For Christian Moms When You’re Feeling Anxious (Episode 195)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
Join us in the Patreon community to support this ministry AND enjoy my 2025 Daily(ish) Devotionals in the private podcast + email every day! Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
246 // Taming Your Tongue: Practical Tips From The Proverbs
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Grab your FREE conflict resolution cheat sheet today!
Episode 246 // Want to change your family relationships? Your home atmosphere? Change your words.
What you say, and how you say it, will shape every relationship you care about. Scripture talks often about our words and how we use them. And the Bible gives very specific wisdom about how to use our words to strengthen our relationships, bless others, and enjoy family life more and more.
Join me to dive into 5 specific, actionable tips straight from the Proverbs - and let’s start communicating well with our families today.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab your FREE conflict resolution cheat sheet today (from a licensed marriage & family therapist!)
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-day devotional on emotional control or dive into your marriage specifically with the Communicating To Connect 40-Day devotional on marriage communication
LISTEN NEXT: How To Stop Yelling At Your Kids When You're Angry (Episode 212)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Who Is This Jesus? A Devotional For Holy Week in Colossians 1:15-23 [BONUS]
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
We are in the middle of Holy Week, friends. The week when we remember Jesus’ last days as He walked toward the cross. We celebrate the forgiveness of our sins on Good Friday and the incredible truth of the resurrection on Easter Sunday.
So today, we’ll pause our usual podcast plans to reflect together. I want to share my “Daily-ish Devotional Thought” from inside the Faith Fiver Club - the Patreon community supporting this show!
Join me as we walk through Colossians 1:15-23 and reflect together on the most important questions of life, which Holy Week is all about: Who is this Jesus? How has He impacted your life? What truly is the gospel?
I hope you and your family have a wonderful Easter celebration!
🐣 Get my printable Easter Story Cards here to enjoy with your family this week
✨ Join us in the “Faith Fiver Club” and support this ministry on Patreon for only a few dollars a month - and get access to the 2025 perk of Daily-ish Devotions all year long!
💕 Find more biblical encouragement, practical tips, and helpful resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
hugs & blessings,
Jess
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
245 // Can You Tame Your Tongue? Wisdom And Encouragement From James 3
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Grab the Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-day devotional on emotional control.
Episode 245 // Scripture offers great encouragements - and great warnings - about the power of our tongue. Words tend to shape the quality of our relationships, and they can slip out quickly.
Our words are shaped by our emotions. And just like our emotions can be hard to manage, our tongues are sometimes even more so!
Today, let’s sit together in James 3, seeking the Lord’s wisdom and encouragement for how we use our words and manage our tongues. We want to use our words for the blessing of our family and the glory of our God.
Join me, friend. Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab your FREE 45-day Bible and Prayer Guide today.
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-day devotional on emotional control.
LISTEN NEXT: The Key To A Happy Christian Home: Speaking Encouraging Words For Your Family (Episode 120)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
244 // Handling Your Hot Moment: 9 Tips To Start Calming Down In The First 90 Seconds
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Grab the Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-day devotional on emotional control.
Episode 244 // We all have those moments when we’re about to lose it. How can you cool down when you’re in that hot-button moment?
This is a common mom struggle - even for Christian mamas who are walking closely with Jesus! And we want our words and our reactions to show the fruit of the Spirit in every situation.
So today, I want to share 9 quick tips for what to do as soon as you notice you’re getting heated. Hopefully, before you yell. Before you cry. Before you lose it.
Jump in with me, friend, and let’s find some quick, practical things to help us get control of our big emotions before they lead us down a dangerous path.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
RESOURCES FOR YOU
FREE: Grab your free Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet.
DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-day devotional on emotional control.
LISTEN NEXT: How To Stop Yelling At Your Kids When You're Angry (Episode 212)
GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW
NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.
Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!
FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest
DISCLAIMERS
I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
MISSION
Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.
Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com